The last foster family was told by CPS that they could adopt E., so the parents as well as CPS immediately told E. that this was going to be his “forever home”. After a couple months of staying with them, he started calling them “mom “ and “dad”. After a few months, the foster parents realized that E. was not going to be adoptable yet, and that his case was much more complicated than they were ever told.
To be adopted, a child’s biological parent’s rights have to be terminated. E.’s parents rights were never terminated even though he had not seen them in 4 ½ years. In the past 1 ½ year s, he has had 5 different CPS workers assigned to his case. Each time the CPS worker gets his case they have to become familiar to his situation again and again and again. They basically have to start from the beginning each time. Necessary things have been done to help E. become adoptable but were not documented, and therefore, many things have been done multiple times so that the state can document them properly. This kind of thing is what has kept him in foster care for 5 years.
Everyone keeps telling Paul and me “congratulations” on getting a foster son. However, our feelings are so mixed. We absolutely love having E. with us, but we know how confusing his little heart must feel right now….it just doesn’t seem like congratulations are in order. We pray that for E.’s sake CPS will help draw some closure to his case. We pray that God will direct this path and that E. will find his ”forever family”.
I think this is called "drinking away your profits"